Her

"Being married is hard for sure, each coming from different backgrounds that can weigh heavy on either of us, but there is something that feels so good about sharing our lives with somebody, growing up together and being a big influence on each other in a way where we liberate ourselves into experiencing a sense of just trying stuff and allowing each other to fail and to be excited about things, like seeing both of us grow and change together. But, you know, that is also the hard part. Growing without growing apart. Or changing without it scarring the other person. Or realizing that the past is just a story we tell ourselves, even though we still find ourselves having past conversations and rehashing old arguments in our minds."